True Love!

If there is one thing that I find myself sharing with my clients the most it is the truth that in order to achieve the exciting and passionate intimate relationship you desire, you must be willing to take the risk one more time. No risk, no reward. Of course this is easier said than done especially when you have been hurt in previous relationships. I recently re-read an excerpt from “The Hoffman Process” about addressing your relationship patterns, fears, and mindset. BTW, this is a great book about empowering yourself to change your future so check it out. It talks about how the intimate relationship that might be the most challenging for you is usually the one that can bring the most healing. This in itself can be difficult to grasp or even desire at times because you know there is a lot that you would have to work through (and there’s probably a few things you didn’t think about that will arise along the way). But just imagine getting over all that is holding you back and finally having ALL that you want in a relationship without any reservation, self-doubt, or thoughts of what could have been with someone else. Get a vision for that if you don’t have one and take the challenge to get started on your journey to that amazing relationship.

I can tell you from experience that it is important to remember that the challenge goes both ways. Trust me, each party has challenges to face regardless of your perception. Heck, getting past your perceptions of the other person is a challenge!  Keeping or even starting an open dialogue helps with this one though. But if embarking on the journey to get out of your own way seems a bit daunting just remember:

1. Regardless of how many people have given up on you in a relationship, left you during vulnerable times, or hurt you without an apology, healing is always available for you. All that you need lies within. 
2. No matter how long you have been repeating a relationship pattern, you have the power to transform your life. The power lies within.
3. We live in a mutually supportive Universe and all that you need to have what you desire will be available to you in abundance. Just set your intention and be present to the workings of the Universe to bring it to you.

Peace within, joy, love, abundance, passion, and excitement awaits you. For more information about how working with a coach can help you or other resources to help you on your journey, contact me at:  lakenya@coachingendeavors or call 609-416-1116.

Live in Love my friends!
LaKenya